“They were having a Silent Film Festival at Berkeley,” she recalls, “and the main show featured grandpa. I was stunned. I’d never seen him as a young man. “Watching him that day, I totally fell in love with silent films.” Since then, silent film festivals and fan clubs have become quite trendy. One of the most popular clubs is The Damfinos, better known as the International Buster Keaton Society (www.busterkeaton.com). Cox serves on its Board of Directors, and in 2010, she and her mom, Barbara, were special guests at The Damfino’s Annual Convention in Muskegon, Michigan.
Cox has a number of special keepsakes from her grandpa, including one of his signature pork-pie hats and a tie he hand-stitched. She takes many of these treasured items to the conventions and festivals she attends. After her step-grandmother Eleanor died in 1998, Cox became the family’s Goodwill Ambassador on behalf of her Grandpa Buster. Today, she regularly travels around the country, attending film festivals and conventions in his honor. Last year, she went to Germany for a Buster Keaton Film Festival.
Cox moved with her family to Cloverdale in the mid 70’s, and with a degree in horticulture, quickly landed a job she dearly loved at a nursery. People started asking her to help design their yards, so she enrolled at SRJC and soon became certified by the California Association of Nurserymen. For the past 25 years, she has been successfully self-employed as a landscape designer. When the last of her three children went to college, Cox took up painting. She had no art background, but for some reason the idea appealed to her. After taking a weekend watercolor class about 11 years ago, she discovered a talent she didn’t know she had. Since then, Cox has taught watercolor classes and won numerous awards, including three Best of Show honors. She is a member of the Watercolor Artists of Sonoma County (WASCO) and the First Street Gallery of Cloverdale, where several of her original watercolors are available for purchase, as well as prints, cards and bookmarks. Her paintings also hang in many private homes across the United States.
A few years ago, Cox drove to the Motion Picture Academy in Beverly Hills to deliver 20 boxes of photographs that had belonged to her Aunt Norma Talmadge and had been in her attic for more than 30 years. With the help of her dad (who died in 2007), Cox was able to identify many of the people in the photos, and the Academy now calls it the best original silent film photo collection ever...
How wonderful! I love that she gave the box of photos to the Academy—I'm sure they were beyond excited, and I hope the public may get to see a few of them someday, if they're not already out there!
ReplyDeleteReally enjoyed reading Melissa's Cox's childhood memories of her grandfather and of how she discovered him in another way through his silent films. She's led a very interesting life in her own right and I admire her for that as well as for all she's done as her grandfather's goodwill ambassador.
ReplyDeleteI grew up in the Chicago area. My mom told us we are related (distant cousin) to Buster
ReplyDeleteKeaton. I am going to continue looking into this. Cool!
Where are these pictures on display I wonder?
ReplyDeleteWonderful comedian, irreplaceable, a one-off!Lovely to read of his grandaughter's warm memories. Brian, Ballyclare northern Ireland
ReplyDeleteI recently watched "The Great Buster" on Hulu knowing very little about his work (I had only seen one movie of his before). I was curious to see if he had any living descendants and found this blog post. Very cool! Thanks for sharing. Insane how his movies are enjoyed even 100 years later.
ReplyDeleteI'm wondering if Melissa worked at a pack station on the Eastern side of the Sierra Mountains - Agnew Meadows or Reds Meadows? If so, she took me riding with her up to a high area to drop off some campers and we rode back. I could barely walk the next day as I hadn't been on a horse in a long time. Melissa was very friendly and told me that Buster Keaton was her Grandpa. If that is you, Melissa, thank you for the great ride ! Donna S., Sacramento CA
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